{"id":963,"date":"2019-02-28T18:50:40","date_gmt":"2019-03-01T00:50:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/loosestringsfromthepast.com\/?p=963"},"modified":"2019-02-28T18:50:40","modified_gmt":"2019-03-01T00:50:40","slug":"to-who","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loosestringsfromthepast.com\/?p=963","title":{"rendered":"TO WHO?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The five-year-old entered kindergarten with bright eyes and a wide smile.\u00a0 He looked around the room with a curious expression that seemed to say he was ready to learn and he would have fun.\u00a0 He did learn and he did have fun. He was a quick learner always eager to go on the next new thing on the agenda.<\/p>\n<p>A treat for the children was a ride on the local fire truck. (This was 35 years ago.\u00a0 The parents did have to sign a permission form.)\u00a0 The children looked forward to it every year.\u00a0 It was a big deal.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_961\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-961\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/loosestringsfromthepast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/20190228_181016-e1551399760814.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-961\" src=\"https:\/\/loosestringsfromthepast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/20190228_181016-e1551399760814-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/loosestringsfromthepast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/20190228_181016-e1551399760814-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/loosestringsfromthepast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/20190228_181016-e1551399760814-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/loosestringsfromthepast.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/20190228_181016-e1551399760814-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-961\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Loading up to ride the fire truck<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>After the ride, the children drew a picture and dictated a story about the experience to my aide or to me.\u00a0 The little boy told me to begin his story \u201cTo ????\u201d\u00a0 I had no idea what he said.\u00a0 I asked, \u201cTo whom?\u201d\u00a0 He repeated it.\u00a0 I asked him to say it more slowly.\u00a0 He said it again carefully enunciating every syllable.\u00a0 I was still clueless.\u00a0 I said, \u201cI don\u2019t know how to spell that.\u201d\u00a0 The look he gave me was a combination of surprise, disappointment, and exasperation.\u00a0 He thought I was supposed to know everything.<\/p>\n<p>He sighed deeply. He asked in a slow, thoughtful voice, \u201cWell then, can you spell Jose?\u201d\u00a0 Yes, I could spell Jose.\u00a0 His story began, \u201cTo Jose.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Children who did not ride a bus were usually met on the sidewalk outside the classroom after school.\u00a0 I went to his grandmother and told her what I thought he was trying to say.\u00a0 She immediately started laughing.\u00a0 \u201cThat is what he calls me.\u201d\u00a0 The mystery was solved.<\/p>\n<p>I met Jose at the open house a short time later.\u00a0 He was laughing as he approached me.\u00a0 He introduced himself and said, \u201cI am so glad you can spell my name.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The boy continued happily throughout the year.\u00a0 He skipped happily into first grade the next year curious and eager.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">The boy was different.\u00a0 He didn\u2019t know he was different.\u00a0 The children didn\u2019t know he was different.\u00a0 He was the only black child in the<\/p>\n<p>school.\u00a0 That is the way it is supposed to be.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; The five-year-old entered kindergarten with bright eyes and a wide smile.&nbsp; He looked around the room with a curious expression that seemed to say he was ready to learn and he would have fun.&nbsp; He did learn and he did have fun. 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